When my son was growing up under my tutelage as a single mom,
the holidays became a time of dread for me. First of all, because of the divorce situation, I only had my son every other holiday. Being in 24/7 healthcare, I usually worked the holidays when it was the the ex's turn to have him. Can't complain about time and a half but it was still a very lonely time for me.
The very best thing that us singles can do this time of year is to stay completely away from any negative influences.
That may even include what's left of your family if they've nothing positive to bring to the table. Family nowadays, is who you choose to associate with and who raises your spirits. Being single is often hard enough without derogatory judgement from family.
Connect with the people that you feel good around and who genuinely like your company as well.
It doesn't have to be a crowd; it could be just one or two other people that you resonate with.
Participate in physical activity like walking, hiking or yoga. Allow yourself the luxury of spending some down time reading a delicious book, go to a move or schedule a lunch or dinner date with someone you've been wanting to catch up with. Write down your feelings in a journal.
You are not alone.
There are plenty of us "singles" out there creating new traditions for ourselves and having fun over the holidays. Won't you join us?
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